Class Notes on Lesson Four: Purity in the Obscure
August 24, 2010 § Leave a comment
On Monday, August 24, 2010, we discussed Lesson Four: Purity in the Obscure (Meandering, Modesty, and Meekness.) First we briefly went over the text discussing that we are truly NOT our own, but bought with a price.
We spent much time on meandering and discussed that our minds and our time are valuable assets, that our desires should not dictate our behavior, and we should not keep company with those that are idle, talebearers, or meddlers.
This does not mean that we ignore people who do, but that we limit our exposure to them. When we do this, many find it offensive and say that we are acting like we are too good for them. The truth is that we are not good enough.
Knowing that our own sinful nature and how easily we fall into sin, we need to know that associating with those that meander, those that are talebearers or gossips, and others that meddle will result in our participation in the same behavior.
I’ve often said that I don’t need any help sinning, I do just fine in that area all by myself. We all have our own issues. If we spend time meandering and not realizing our time is a valuable asset and must be managed just like our money, we will fall into sin more often than not. Limiting our exposure to these behaviors, reduces the temptation to us join in it.
It is very much like someone who has a contagious sickness. I used the example of ‘Pink Eye’ but it could be any sickness (a cold, the flu, etc.) We need to limit our association with these people until that have recovered from the sickness.
This is why God tells us to flee from those who are caught up in it. This does not mean that these people are bad, it just means they are a danger to us while they continue in what we know we shouldn’t do.
God is so good, isn’t He? Just like we as parents instruct our children to stay away from troublemakers, God instructs us to do the same.
On the subject of modesty, we broadened the field from simple clothing to behavior and motives. Of course, we spoke of clothing. And as a general rule, if you are going for attention-getting wardrobe, then you will certainly get it. Dressing in a way that is flashy or eye-catching diverts attention from God to you. And is that what we truly want?
Women can dress appropriately and still be immodest. How? By being loud and flashy, like the woman in Proverbs 7, by flirting and flattering as we discussed last week, by not developing a sense of graciousness – these are the behaviors that reveal to the world the motives in our heart. All of them are look-at-me behaviors and in no way glorifies God.
This moved us to the subject of meekness. I regret that the class ran a little long so we didn’t spend much time on this topic. We did review and read all the verses in the ‘Pursuing the Word’ section, specifically Isaiah 66:2. What we found there was the secret of God paying close attention to our prayers. That secret is to be of a ‘poor and of a contrite spirit, and trembleth at God’s word.’
Meandering, modesty, and meekness are obscure topics. These are not generally taught with a focus on pursuing purity. But, these are major areas in our lives that, if we follow after God’s instruction, we will know God in a deeper way.